My name is Risa. I'm 23 years old and live in Boca Raton, Florida. I have battled with my weight since I was about 6 years old, and for the last couple years, I was finally winning the fight. But I slipped, gaining back 36lbs from my lowest weight in ages. Now I'm buckling down again to shed the weight so I can look on the outside the way I feel on the inside. But the road isn't always straight and smooth. For more information on my life-long weight loss journey, please view my first post here. This blog exists for me, to keep me on track and motivated. If you don't like personal posts or personal opinions, you took the wrong fork at Albuquerque!

**Please note that I am not a nutritionist, personal trainer, doctor, or in any way professionally trained in matters of health. Any advice I provide is based on my own thorough research and experiences. Please consult your physician or other health advisor for your personal needs.**

Watch my video about excess skin and, if you'd like, donate to my skin removal surgery fund by clicking the button below. Please and thank you for your support. <3



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May 17th
8:47 PM
Just got back from my first run in a while. Tired, but happy! Forgot how good this feels.

Just got back from my first run in a while. Tired, but happy! Forgot how good this feels.

5:57 PM

a message from Anonymous


Hey Risa! I think you're probably aware of the comments made by the CEO of Abercrombie 7 Fitch. What's your opinion on this?

I think I didn’t need it to be in the news to know it. In addition to the CEO’s body shaming and self esteem slashing, the company also discriminates against the physically disabled.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/16/abercrombie-fitch-brand-h_n_3288646.html?utm_hp_ref=tw

I’ve never given a penny to that company, and I never will.

fuckyeahfeminists:

deadpon-and-weible:

impsexual:

Because telling fat people that they are in fact humans that deserve dignity and respect automatically means you’re ~*GLORIFYING OBESITY*~

By the way, don’t dribble on to me saying you worry about a fat person’s ‘health’. That’s just a bullshit excuse to voice your unwanted opinion on a fat person’s body considering you wouldn’t give a single flying fuckadoodle about someone’s health if they were skinny. Besides another person’s health is none of your damned business anyway. Run along now and preach to a choir that actually cares.

I’m going to be honest, so long as you’re not hurting anyone, you can eat soy sauce and milk duds all day long for all I care.

thank you so much for this comic imp.

this is all sorts of amazin

11:37 AM

a message from Anonymous


HAPPY BIRTHDAY RISA! I hope your day was absolutely wonderful!

Thank you! I wish I knew who you were. This was the only birthday message I got yesterday. <3

May 16th
8:12 AM
Via

girlgrowingsmall:

In today’s video, I talk about what excess skin is like, and I show the excess skin on my body 3 years after gastric bypass RNY surgery. Excess skin like this usually only happens after rapid massive weight loss, so don’t panic that you’ll get this after dropping 20lbs.

This video is not meant to debate the merits of gastric bypass. It’s not meant to be a plea for cash or pity. It is simply to show what I live with everyday. I get a lot of questions about it. A lot of staring and looks of disgust, too. But this is my body. And until I can save up ~$30,000 for the series of reconstructive surgeries this requires (very difficult while unemployed and paying off student loans), this is the body I have to live with. Insurance will not cover this for 99.9% of patients.

If you have any further questions, my ask box is open. (Sorry this video is so rushed. Tumblr has a 5 minute time limit, and I’m not putting this on another site.)

Happy birthday to me! Bumping to remind myself how far I’ve come. Maybe this year I’ll be able to start my surgeries. I’m 10% of the way there in my savings.

May 15th
10:53 AM
Via
thefitty:

This is so beautiful.
No matter how long or fast you can run, no matter tall short, young, old, fat or stocky you are, if you run—you are a runner. A runner is made in the heart—not from your physical appearance or fitness level.
As a stocky and short cross country runner who’s had more than her fair share of defeats, I appreciate this to no end. Thank you, thank you so much.

thefitty:

This is so beautiful.

No matter how long or fast you can run, no matter tall short, young, old, fat or stocky you are, if you run—you are a runner. A runner is made in the heart—not from your physical appearance or fitness level.

As a stocky and short cross country runner who’s had more than her fair share of defeats, I appreciate this to no end. Thank you, thank you so much.

9:27 AM
Via

May 13th
10:25 PM

The moment I get home from work:

mcbrayers:

yet another unrealistic expectation for women

mcbrayers:

yet another unrealistic expectation for women

May 12th
7:48 PM
Via

rebornica:

I keep seeing too many people complain about having big thighs and being fat or skinny so I made these!

Encouraging Zangief!

maymay:

“Repeat Rape: How do they get away with it?”, Part 1 of 2. (link to Part 2)

Sources:

  1. College Men: Repeat Rape and Multiple Offending Among Undetected Rapists,Lisak and Miller, 2002 [PDF, 12 pages]
  2. Navy Men: Lisak and Miller’s results were essentially duplicated in an even larger study (2,925 men): Reports of Rape Reperpetration by Newly Enlisted Male Navy Personnel, McWhorter, 2009 [PDF, 16 pages]

By dark-side-of-the-room, who writes:

These infogifs are provided RIGHTS-FREE for noncommercial purposes. Repost them anywhere. In fact, repost them EVERYWHERE. No need to credit. Link to the L&M study if possible.

Knowledge is a seed; sow it.

that-boy-with-scars:

doses-of-inspiration:

coolhandluke93:

bigblackgeek:

Yes we do.

Way more than you realize. 

Yep.

I agree. Sometimes we need just a little help.

that-boy-with-scars:

doses-of-inspiration:

coolhandluke93:

bigblackgeek:

Yes we do.

Way more than you realize. 

Yep.

I agree. Sometimes we need just a little help.

…am I the only one who was surprised by the website on the very bottom of the graphic???