I'm sorry for you negative experience with Greek like. I'm always sad when I hear that, because Greek life has benefited me in so many ways and my experience was so different. My house prided itself on our diversity because we had women of all races, body types, hair colors, religions, majors etc. Of course, I went to a small private school. Unfortunately it seems your experience is a lot more typical at big state schools. They missed out on having an amazing sister!