(cont) cut him out of my life. There are so many memories in my house, and all of my favourite places have become our favourite places. We really did have some great times together, when all the shit wasn’t happening. I don’t think I can continue with the relationship, but I don’t think I can bare to end it either. Any advice? I feel so alone here.

It sounds to me like you know what the answer is but just want someone else to tell you it’s the right decision. Yes. It is the right decision. Every breakup has some good times that came before it. The man who hits his wife used to bring her flowers when they were dating. The woman who constantly accuses her husband of cheating used to just be happy to see him smile. There are always going to be good memories in there. You two got together because there was something there. But that something doesn’t always last, and that’s why relationships end. The cleaner the break, the easier it will be to move on. You’ll find someone else in time.